1. Weddings are pretty meaningless now
I’d love to celebrate being in love with someone, and have an excuse to tell other couples how great it is that they’re in love and are happy. I think this was the original point of weddings, but now they are only tangentially related to actually being in love. Now, a wedding is a finish line for people who want to be an adult or it’s something that you just do, because everyone does it.
How many weddings have we all been to of couples who divorced afterwards? Or, where it seemed as if the couple was taking this step because it’s a thing you are supposed to do, not because they had spent a lot of time thinking about spending their lives together?
A wedding today is more of a status symbol about having reached a life milestone and less of a celebration…
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